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Questions
to ask
1.
Now that we have talked about my qualifications,
do you have any concerns about me fulfilling
the responsibilities of this position?
2.
As my direct report in this position,
what are the three top priorities you
would first like to see accomplished?
3.
In what area could your team use a little
polishing?
4.
Why did you join this Company?
5.
Is there any further information that you
require to help my progress to the next interview phase for this position?

Resignations
Sooner
or later, most of us face the resignation
blues. Resigning is never easy, especially
when you've worked at a position for
several years, and have become part
of a team. Some employers and co-workers
take it personally and accuse you of
abandoning ship. However, handling your
resignation as professionally and thoughtfully
as you handle your search for a new
job can help make your resignation relatively
smooth and amicable.
MAKE
UP YOUR MIND
Before
you submit your resignation, you must
be clearly committed to leaving. Have
you already pursued all avenues for
advancement within your firm? Visit
with your boss and other key personnel
to learn where your career stands and
what plans are in place for you.
Give
your firm every consideration. This
will help you commit to your new opportunity
once you decide to leave.
KEEP
RESIGNATIONS SHORT, SIMPLE AND POSITIVE
Leave
your employer on a positive note. Your
moving on does not have to be a time
for long faces. After all, you have
just won an opportunity to advance,
an opportunity for which you owe your
employer sincere thanks. Thank your
colleagues, too, for their help in preparing
you to move onward and upward. If you
have given your best to the job, you
will be missed, especially by those
inconvenienced by your leaving! Let
them know that you intend to assist
them in whatever ways you can. By showing
your boss and firm due respect, you
encourage future support you may someday
need.
When
you resign, keep your conversations
simple and concise. The more you say,
the more questions you may have to answer.
Avoid lengthy discussion about your
new opportunity with your old employer.
Typically, your resignation creates
extra work for others. Chances are,
your boss will be caught off-guard by
your resignation, and will not be able
to listen clearly to your explanations
due to concerns about the sudden challenge
your leaving presents. Because your
boss is losing a valued employee, he
or she may express negative opinions
about your new firm or position. This
will only confuse you. You may find
yourself having to justify your personal
goals and decisions or absorb the personal
frustrations of others.
If
you’re dealing with volatile or vindictive
personalities, it may be best to avoid
revealing where you will be going. If
you feel you may face a hostile atmosphere,
resign at the end of your work day so
that you are no longer on company time
and are in control of your schedule.
Try
to schedule any discussions for the
following morning when everyone can
face your departure after time to absorb
and reflect on the news. If you have
to defend yourself at this first meeting,
or if things begin to get out of control,
ask to reschedule the meeting for a
more appropriate time. 
THE
ORAL RESIGNATION
Resigning
orally may place you in the compromising
position of having to explain your decision
on the spot. Words are powerfully charged
when you reveal a decision which has
such an impact on your organization.
Choose your words with care. Your boss
may want to probe for factors which
led to your decision. You may be asked
who or what is the reason for your leaving,
or may be invited to offer suggestions
to help make the organization more effective.
If you have had a close relationship
with your boss, you may feel obliged
to answer candidly. Do not fall for this
trap! Use your head and discuss personal,
heartfelt matters outside the office.
Remember, you interrogator is still
your boss. Whatever you say will be
viewed as biased, after all, you have
severed your relationship with your
organization, and may eventually be
used against you. At this point you
are no longer considered a team player,
nor viewed as having the company’s best
interest at heart.
Too
often, resigning employees come to regret
their comments when they are misinterpreted
or exaggerated in the retelling. Constructive
criticism is no longer your responsibility,
and carries a high cost which could
jeopardize your good references. Instead,
offer sincere praise for the firm and
those with whom you worked.
Prepare
yourself before-hand by focusing on
several positive aspects of your workplace,
and mention them liberally when the
opportunity arises. Even if favorite
aspects were, say, the great lunches,
or humorous stories told over coffee,
better to mention such things than to
harp on disappointments or shortcomings.
(These, you are addressing by moving
on to greener pastures.) You want to
be perceived as a positive, constructive
individual in forward motion. People
will remember your last impression.
Make it your best performance. You may
want to tell your boss something like:
“I
need to discuss something with you if
you have a moment. I’ve been made an
exceptional offer by another firm, and
I’ve decided to accept it. My wife and
I have given this opportunity a lot
of thought. As much as I’d like to advance
within this company, we feel the new
opportunity is in our best long-term
interest. We deeply appreciate all you
and the firm have done for me here.
I don’t think I would have been presented
this exceptional opportunity if not
for your support and leadership. I want
to thank you. I hope I can leave with
your good wishes. You’ve been a friend
as well as a boss.”
If
probed for more information, you may
want to claim that there is nothing
else to say right now. Simply communicate
that you are leaving a good opportunity
for an even better one which suits your
aspirations. 
THE
WRITTEN RESIGNATION
Written
resignations give you the time to effectively
prepare what you wish to communicate,
and give you greater control over your
delivery of the message. You can’t be
thrown off-track by an unexpected remark
as can happen during a confrontational
conversation. A written resignation
also reinforces the fact that you are
really leaving and are not simply threatening
in order to renegotiate your position.
Also, there is something permanent about
the written word which often circumvents
interrogation. Under no circumstance
should you state any dissatisfactions
with the firm or individuals. Not only
is it good manners to stress the positive
when leaving, but items in your personnel
file may long outlast the individuals
and circumstances responsible for your
dissatisfaction. You never know when
your path will cross those of your former
colleagues. To keep your resignation
short, simple, and positive, you may
want to write something like:
Boss,
Title,
Company,
Address,
Date:
Dear
Boss,
I
want to thank you for
all you have done for
me here at [Company].
It has been a pleasure
working with you, and
representing the company
as your [job title].
I
have accepted an offer
with another firm and
have decided to tender
my resignation as of
today. This decision
has nothing to do with
the exceptional opportunity
you have provided for
me here. You and the
company have been more
than fair with me, and
I genuinely appreciate
all your support.
I
wish [Company] continued
success, and I want
to thank you for allowing
me to be a part of your
team.
Please
feel free to contact
me at any time if I
can be of further assistance
in helping with a smooth
transition.”
Yours
sincerely,
Name
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Letters
get filed and passed around to explain
what happened, reducing the call for
endless orations on the same subject.
They also dispel any perceived ambivalence
in your behavior during this delicate
time. 
LEAVE
ON THE RIGHT NOTE
Before
leaving the firm, take time to speak
with each of your support staff, peers,
executive personnel, and others with
whom you’ve worked. To the extent practical,
clear up any unfinished business. Be
sensitive to others’ reactions and keep
your conversations positive and constructive.
Some
people may naturally express their own
discontentment, and may egg you on to
agree with them. Don't! Instead, express
your appreciation and tell your colleagues
you’ll miss them. A little time spent
nurturing relationships before leaving
for your new job will go a long way
to build support for your future.
Also
keep in mind that it is professional
courtesy to give your employer ample
notice to help them prepare for your
departure, typically, 2-4 weeks. However,
you should try to get out as soon as
possible to avoid recurring invitations
to tell your story, and to avoid having
to deal with the frustrations and pressures
at the job as the firm adjusts to your
leaving.

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